I'm going to pretend that I've been typing here awhile, and pick up mid-conversation. (.. and maybe jump around a bit too)
Lately I've been feeling a need to find my voice again. Isn't that funny? When I was a girl, I journaled. Some of it was silly, and some of it wasn't. I haven't looked at any of those journals in long awhile. The last time I did there were moments I read that were so awkwardly embarrassing, and then others where I was surprised at the insight. These days I'm a wife, a mother of two young girls, I work full time and am constantly on the go. Life stays busy, but most of the time I wish it was a little slower. Some things fall through the cracks (hello, clean house.. we miss you), and sometimes I'm shocked at the amount that we are able to accomplish with all the other things we are doing. I find myself wishing for simplicity more. More time, and less stuff. Less of the things that are not important. More of God. More giggles and cuddles and less.. hurry.
16 years ago today, I found out my dear friend Sarah had died in a car accident. It rocked my work and was so unexpected. We were born just a few days apart. We didn't meet until 9th grade, but we were two peas in a pod from the very first day. She was the closest thing I had to a sister growing up. She had just turned 17, and she died in between our birthdays. The first years after her death, this time of year was very hard for me. The joy around my birthday had turned to pain and loss. I believe in restoration of things that have been lost or stolen... both the little and the big. I can definitely say that God has restored my joy. At one time I couldn't think of Sarah without that cutting, jagged pain hitting me in the chest. These days, when I think of Sarah, I can smile again. It's a relief to feel that way. Smile at the young girls we were and just enjoy memories of my friend. I had avoided so many of those memories for too long. Today more memories came back, and it all started with a simple post on facebook. I'm thankful that Sarah knew God, that when this life is over, we will meet again someday. She had a wide-open embrace for everything God had for her. From his love, to any spiritual gifts. If God had a gift for her, Sarah wanted it. I think one of the hardest parts about her death for me, had always been feeling like this wasn't "God's plan" for her life. I'm not one to get angry easy, but any claims that this was in God's plan would definitely rile me. That isn't the nature of my God! It's such irony that people will blame God for everything, but don't even want to acknowledge the evil that is in the world. I can only imagine what would have been... and I can only imagine what that meeting day in Heaven will be like. Since Sarah died, I have lost other loved ones. My newborn brother who only survived a month, my dearly loved grandfather, the boy next door, and others. My dearly loved grandmother has been loosing her memory, which is a loss of another kind. I was thinking today that no matter how many times you go through loss, you never really become an expert at it. Each loss is different, and effects you in different ways. The ones that bother me the most are the ones where I am unsure of where the person will spend eternity. I can tell you, that isn't a feeling I like. I am bold in some ways, but much more reserved in others. I feel reticent in sharing the gospel. Held back by the fear that I will do something that would push someone further way from God instead of bringing them closer.. that they will not be receptive. I will pray and pray some more, but I'm not sure that is enough. Not with a lost and dying world, where the laborers are few.
The thoughts just kept coming today. I started thinking about how individual our testimonies are. I never really thought about having much of a testimony to share, because nothing out of the ordinary happened when I accepted Jesus in my heart. I am not even sure when it happened exactly, although if I had to take a guess I would say I was 12 years old, and at Tuesday night youth group. However, when I look back on my life, I can see all these places where he did so much for me.. held me up, helped me over, led me through and comforted me. I feel such thankfulness in my heart. In the last two years we've had some events happen that I was only able to get through by relying on God. I've found forgiveness in my heart for things I never would have expected, and I know that it came through him. ... yet now is not the time for a full life-long testimony. It is enough to realize that I have one... or really, that I have a many- faceted one, and that there may come a time when I feel that nudge in my spirit to share part of it. The knowledge that something God has brought me through could help someone else in some way... big or small.
I had planned to start a blog with gracefelt one day. It has been pushed to the back burner for years. Tonight I just needed to find my voice again... no planning required. So just pretend I'm an old friend, and like any good friend... remember the best, forget the worst, and please (please) ignore any clutter.